Anxiety towards the end of life: Information for clinicians

This advice is sourced from Dr Heather Wells, Clinical Psychologist and Dr Ros Taylor a senior palliative physician

Anxiety is very common in advancing illness. 

For many people death is a taboo subject. Unexpressed fears about the end of life can worsen anxiety and impact symptom control and quality of life.

Leaning in to exploring individual worries is key and requires brave empathic communication. Patients can feel overwhelmed and the conversations can't be rushed. Depending on your clinical setting it may require several appointments to explore, and your patient should control the pace.

Causes of anxiety can range from the practical to the spiritual. Some of these worries can be resolved and others can be shared, explored and often become more tolerable over time. 

Discussing fears and worries often leads on to identifing goals of care, and can help people to plan how they want to live.

Common worries we see in practice

Pain – people may worry about dying in pain; those with cancer may worry that new pain is a sign of the cancer spreading

End of active treatment – people may struggle to adjust when active treatment of an illness stops e.g. chemotherapy

The process of dying - this can be gently explained

Family worries – for example, worrying about being a burden or being isolated and abandoned

Legal, financial and housing worries - often not explored by clinicians

Spiritual distress

Assessment of severity

A validated tool such as GAD-7 can be helpful to guide treatment

Non pharmacological treatment

Recommended book: Free yourself from Death Anxiety. A CBT Self-Help Guide for a Fear of Death and Dying. Menzies and Veale 2022

Pharmacological treatment
  • Benzodiazepines e.g. long acting diazepam or clonazepam or short acting lorazepam. In hospice care we commonly use clonazepam 500 mcg twice daily for anxiety and neuropathic pain
  • SSRIs such as sertraline, citalopram or escitalopram are worth trialling if there is a reasonable prognosis
  • Citalopram drops 40 mg/ml can be really useful for people with swallowing difficulties or towards the end of life to avoid SSRI withdrawal. The starting dose is 4 oral drops (8mg) which is equivalent to a 10mg tablet
  • Other commonly used medications for anxiety include neuropathic agents such as pregabalin and sedative antidepressants such as mirtazapine and trazodone

In palliative practice we have a lower threshold for prescribing anxiolytics and often use benzodiazepines (BDZs) to support titration of antidepressants. BDZs are a useful short term intervention to reduce severe anxiety so that patients can engage with other non pharmacological strategies. Concerns about addiction do not apply.

Recommended Resources

Oxford Textbook of Palliative Care

Published 1st January 2019

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This is a 24 hour 7 days a week helpline providing advice for patients, families and professionals, hosted by St Luke's Hospice for residents of Harrow and North Brent.

Urgent rapid response visits can be made to patients registered with a Harrow GP

 

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Areas: Queensbury, Fryent, Welsh Harp, Barnhill, Kenton, Northwick Park, Preston, Sudbury, Wembley Central, Alperton, Tokyngton

The team can be contacted for referrals Monday to Sunday 8.30am to 4.30pm. 

After 4.30pm the Out of Hours Telephone Advice line 020 8382 8000 operates and calls will be taken by a nurse on St Lukes inpatient unit

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Areas: Harlesden, Willesden, Kilburn, Neasden (south of north circular Brent, except the St Raphael's Estate) 

All referrals to be made via the CLCH Single Point of Access Service (SPA) email address and will be processed during working hours of Monday to Friday 9.00am to 4:30pm. Any referrals sent outside of this time period will be processed on the next working day.

For ALL urgent referrals, both in and out of working hours, please also call Pembridge (as per current process) on the 24 hour number above.

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Referrals for same/next day appointments need to be received by 4.30pm Monday to Friday.

Brent North - Chalkhill team based at Chalkhill Primary Care Centre and Wembley team at Wembley House

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St. John's Hospice provides palliative care services to the residents of Brent and Westminster.

Telephone response will be received within 2 hours.

Inclusions are: Terminal care last 2 weeks of life, 24 hour, admission avoidance, facilitated discharge and respite care escorting a patient.

Referral form for clinician use only.

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St John's Hospice Inpatient unit

T. 020 7806 4040 / 07725 258767

W. https://www.stjohnshospice.org.uk/our-care/inpatient-care

St. John's Hospice provides inpatient palliative care services to the residents of Brent, Central London and West London.

This is an inpatient unit with 18 beds

Please contact for admissions for advice and Community Specialist Palliative Care.

The office hours are Monday to Friday 8.30am to 4.30pm. Referrals received in the morning are triaged the same afternoon, and those received in the afternoon are triaged the following working day.

If urgent, please follow up the referral by calling us on 020 7806 4040. Out of hours, urgent referrals will be discussed with the consultant on call.

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T. 0208 382 8020 / 8050

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Please contact the team between Monday to Saturday 9.00am to 5.00pm.

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This is a 24 hour 7 days a week helpline providing advice for patients, families and professionals, hosted by St Luke's Hospice for residents of Harrow and North Brent.

Urgent rapid response visits can be made to patients registered with a Harrow GP

 

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Visit the website to get help with paying bills, advice on benefits or treatment, or to just chat.

Maggie’s
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Maggie’s

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Referral form for clinician use only.

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Find information and support through the telephone helpline and online chat via their website.

Other services include Marie Curie nurses, Hospice care, helper and companion services.

Respiratory services

Asthma + Lung UK
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Asthma + Lung UK

T. 0300 222 5800

W. https://www.asthmaandlung.org.uk

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The support group is a way to learn more about living with a lung condition and share your experiences and stories with others.

Counselling services

British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP)
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British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP)

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Samaritans
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Samaritans

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Mind
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Mind

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W. https://www.mind.org.uk/

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British Heart Foundation

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W. https://www.bhf.org.uk/

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Patients and carers can get support through the online support groups and communities, advice and guidance about heart and circulatory conditions and managing risk factors.

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Community Brent Heart Failure Service

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W. https://clch.nhs.uk/services/heart-nursing

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The helpline (for patients and GPs) is Monday to Friday, 8am to 4pm.

Community Heart Failure Team Brent
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Community Heart Failure Team Brent

T. 020 8102 5727

The Community Heart Failure Team for Brent is a specialist service has heart failure specialist nurses providing care for patients in the community to manage their condition, reduce hospital admissions, and coordinate with GPs and hospital cardiology teams.

Office hours Monday to Friday, 8.00am to 4.00pm.

Pumping Marvellous - Heart Failure Charity UK
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Pumping Marvellous - Heart Failure Charity UK

W. https://pumpingmarvellous.org/

Pumping Marvellous offers support to help people live well with heart failure, to recognise the early symptoms and self-interventions through their community hub.

Lymphoedema services

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British Lymphology Society

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LymphConnect is an online platform developed to help manage lymphoedema or lipoedema, understand more about the condition, share experiences and get support and advice.

 

St John's Hospice Lymphoedema Care
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This clinic is for patients suffering from lymphoedema in any part of their body as a result of cancer treatment or chronic conditions.

The lymphoedema care provided is free to NHS patients registered with a GP within our catchment area. The NHS service is provided within St John and St Elizabeth Hospital under the hospice or at Charing Cross Hospital.

Pharmacies

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Carters Pharmacy

T. 020 8903 4222

A community pharmacy which stocks common palliative medicines to support people being cared for at home

Address: 524-526 High Road, Wembley, HA9 7BS

Opening hours: Monday to Friday 9.00am to 7.00pm. Saturday 9.00am to 6.00pm

Churchills Pharmacy
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Churchills Pharmacy

T. 020 8907 3511

A community pharmacy which stocks common palliative medicines to support people being cared for at home

Address: 207 Kenton Road, Harrow, HA3 0HD

Opening hours: Monday to Friday 9.00am to 7.00pm. Saturday 9.00am to 1.00pm

G.Lowe Pharmacy
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G.Lowe Pharmacy

T. 020 8904 4197

A community pharmacy which stocks common palliative medicines to support people being cared for at home

Address: 203 East Lane, North Wembley, HA0 3NG

Opening hours: Monday to Friday 9.00am to 7.00pm. Saturday 9.30am to 5.00pm

Gimmack Pharmacy
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Gimmack Pharmacy

T. 020 8452 2418

A community pharmacy which stocks common palliative medicines to support people being cared for at home

Address: 177 Cricklewood Broadway, London, NW2 3HT

Opening hours: Monday to Friday 9.00am to 6.30pm. Saturday 9.00am to 6.00pm

Greenfield Pharmacy
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Greenfield Pharmacy

T. 020 8969 4474

A community pharmacy which stocks common palliative medicines to support people being cared for at home

Address: 61 Chamberlayne Road, London, NW10 3ND

Opening hours: Monday to Friday 9.00am to 7.00pm. Saturday 9.00am to 6.00pm

Health Pharmacy
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A community pharmacy which stocks common palliative medicines to support people being cared for at home

Address: 122 Winderemere Avenue, Wembley, HA9 8RB

Opening hours: Monday to Friday 9.30am to 6.00pm. Saturday 10.00am to 1.00pm

Kings Pharmacy
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Kings Pharmacy

T. 020 7625 8582

W. https://www.kingspharmacy.london/

A community pharmacy which stocks common palliative medicines to support people being cared for at home

Address: 343 Kilburn High Road, Kilburn, NW6 7QB

Opening hours: Monday to Friday 9.00am to 7.00pm. Saturday 10.00am to 2.00pm

Leigh Pharmacy
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Leigh Pharmacy

T. 020 8205 6729

A community pharmacy which stocks common palliative medicines to support people being cared for at home

Address:  278 Church Lane, London, NW9 8LU 

Opening hours: Monday to Friday 9.00am to 6.00pm. Saturday 9.30am to 1.00pm

Peace Pharmacy
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Peace Pharmacy

T. 020 8904 2071

W. https://peacepharmacy.co.uk/

A community pharmacy which stocks common palliative medicines to support people being cared for at home

Address:  14 The Broadway, Preston Road, Wembley, HA9 8JU

Opening hours: Monday to Saturday 9.00am to 10.00pm. Sunday 9.30am to 10.00pm

Rushton Pharmacy
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Rushton Pharmacy

T. 020 8904 6145

A community pharmacy which stocks common palliative medicines to support people being cared for at home

Address: 275-277 Preston Road, Harrow, HA3 0PS

Opening hours: Monday to Wednesday and Friday 9.00am to 6.30 pm. Thursday 9.00am to 6.00pm. Saturday 9.00am to 3.00pm

S&S Chemists
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S&S Chemists

T. 020 8965 1328

W. https://sandschemists.co.uk/

A community pharmacy which stocks common palliative medicines to support people being cared for at home

Address: 40 Harrow Road, Wembley, HA9 6PG

Opening hours: Monday to Friday 9.00am to 7.00pm. Saturday 9.00am to 1.00pm

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Sudbury Chemist

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W. https://www.sudburychemist.co.uk/

A community pharmacy which stocks common palliative medicines to support people being cared for at home.

Address: 879 Harrow Road, Wembley, HA0 2RH 

Opening hours: Monday to Friday 9.00am to 6.30pm. Saturday 9.00am to 5.00pm.

Tyrest Pharmacy
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Tyrest Pharmacy

T. 020 8204 2412

A community pharmacy which stocks common palliative medicines to support people being cared for at home

Address: 427-429 Kenton Road, Middlesex, HA3 0XY

Opening hours: Monday to Friday 9.00am to 7.00pm. Saturday 9.00am to 2.00pm

Wembley Pharmacy
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Wembley Pharmacy

T. 020 8795 3636

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A community pharmacy which stocks common palliative medicines to support people being cared for at home

Address: 183 Ealing Road, Wembley, HA0 4LW

Opening hours: Monday to Saturday 9.00am to 10.00pm. Sunday 12.00pm to 5.00pm

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Compassionate Neighbours can support by:

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District Nurses Night Service Brent
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District Nurses Night Service Brent

T. 020 8102 3456

Calls will be routed directly to the clinical teams that operate after 5.00pm.

District Nurses Brent
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District Nurses Brent

T. 0208 102 3456 option 2

The service operates between Monday to Friday 8:30am to 5.00pm.

Referrals for same/next day appointments need to be received by 4.30pm Monday to Friday.

Brent North - Chalkhill team based at Chalkhill Primary Care Centre and Wembley team at Wembley House

Brent South - Harlesden and South Kilburn teams based at Hillside Primary Care Centre and Willesden team at Willesden Centre for Health

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The Association for Paediatric Palliative Medicine (APPM)

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The Association for Paediatric Palliative Medicine represents all doctors, nurses and allied health professionals working in the area of Paediatric Palliative Medicine in hospital, hospice and community settings. It seeks to support practice and training for all doctors and other health professionals working in this area of medicine. 

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