Anxiety towards the end of life: Information for patients and carers

This information is sourced from Dr Heather Wells, Clinical Psychologist

Anxiety is a natural response to stresses in our lives and is common in people living with a serious illness.

What is anxiety?

Anxiety is a feeling of worry or fear. It can be helpful in the short term by keeping us alert and ready to act in response to danger. However, if these feelings continue for a long time or are difficult to cope with, they can affect quality of life.

Common symptoms of anxiety
  • restlessness and irritability
  • feeling tired
  • breathlessness
  • not being able to concentrate
  • muscle tension
  • disturbed sleep
  • a constant feeling of dread
  • panic attacks (sudden, intense or overwhelming fear often accompanied by chest pain, dizziness, pounding heart, sweating or shaking)
What can make anxiety worse?

Worrying about the future when you are seriously ill is normal. Issues that can make anxiety worse include:

  • Pain and other overwhelming symptoms
  • End of active treatment for an illness, people may struggle to adjust when their treatment e.g. chemotherapy stops 
  • Being isolated from friends and family
  • Family worries for example, worrying about being a burden or future care of partners or children
  • Financial worries/ Employment/ immigration status/ housing conditions
  • Spiritual distress
Managing anxiety

Here are some approaches that people may find helpful:

This 2 minute video from Every Mind Matters demonstrates a mindful breathing exercise

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Published 20th January 2025

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