Caring for a breathless patient at home

Breathlessness is a very frightening symptom - and living with a breathless person can be very stressful.

Having some control over how you breathe, over your thinking and some practical ways to manage everyday activities can really help.

Anxiety and breathlessness are very linked - breathlessness make you anxious - and when you are anxious you breathe more quickly and less efficiently.

Top tips
  • Control your breath - watch the Managing breathlessness video from St Christopher's 
  • Think about your position - to get maximum air into your lungs
  • A flow of air by your nose from a hand-held fan or open window can really help
  • A cool wet flannel over your nose may help
  • What helps you to calm - music, TV, relaxation - try some of the guided meditations below
  • Eat small regular meals that are soft and don't need too much chewing
  • Practical tip - a towelling dressing gown instead of drying with a towel can save energy after a shower
Panic attacks

Think of 4 F's ! Fan, Flop muscles, Forward lean, Focus on long breath out

There are many excellent resources that can help you:

St Christopher's have also produced 4 very short  videos (each less than 4 minutes) 

To help you calm

St Margaret's Hospice have produced some brief videos to support guided relaxation and meditation

Meet and share with other people how to live better with breathlessness, you could try a Breathe Easy group if there is one near you

Recommended Resources

St Christopher's - Managing breathlessness

Published 1st April 2023

St Margaret's Hospice Care - Guided meditation

Published 10th April 2023

Hull York Medical School - A guide to living well with breathlessness

Published 1st January 2023

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Breatheasy groups
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The support group is a way to learn more about living with a lung condition and share your experiences and stories with others.

Brent South Community Palliative Care Team - based at Pembridge Hospice
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Brent South Community Palliative Care Team - based at Pembridge Hospice

T. 020 8102 5000

South Brent Community Specialist Palliative Care Nurse Team provides advice and visiting to palliative care patients in South Brent. The team are based at Pembridge Hospice

Areas: Harlesden, Willesden, Kilburn, Neasden (south of north circular Brent, except the St Raphael's Estate) 

The team can be contacted for referrals Monday to Friday 8.30am to 5.00pm. Weekends and Bank Holidays 9.00am to 5.00pm.  

Between Monday to Friday 5.00pm and 8.30am, the Out of Hours Telephone Advice line 020 8102 5000 takes calls. Weekends and Bank Holidays 5.00pm to 9.00am.

All referrals to be made via SPA email address.

For any other email correspondence. clcht.pembridgeunit@nhs.net.

Referral form for clinician use only.

Community Specialist Palliative Care Referral Form V4 (DOCX)

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